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Bad Relationships: An Open Letter

An open letter—and a promise—to my dear friends who are starting bad relationships.
NOTE: I’m going to avoid the term ‘abusive’ unless it pertains to physical violence. Emotional and psychological abuse are just as valid as physical abuse, but I’ve found that when I try to talk to friends about the elements of said abuse in their relationships, they immediately shut down. And I’m already hoping against hope to reach multiple people with this letter.
My dear, darling friend:
I want to start this by saying that I love you and that I’m not going anywhere. And I want to promise you that I am not judging you.
I am not judging you.

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